Smart guys dating dumb girls
It was how my nephew looks at my sister when he wants more food but doesn't know how to get it. I couldn't talk to him about my work, because it was over his head. The guy was great with logistical stuff, but I'm not a logistical kind of gal. But I felt an incredible draw towards him, his crude jokes and his bedroom prowess.
We had the same lightheartedness ability to laugh things off. Mmm, did it make him I'd never thought about why I'm pretty much only attracted to dumb men.
And though her mama didn't want to admit it, she totally knew it, too. This boy was cute in a nerdy, "Game of Thrones" kind of way, and he was a great kisser -- I'm talking top five kisses I've ever had -- but we didn't have a to talk about.
Why do I take up the cute, dumb ones on offers to drinks and dinner, but turn down the brainy ones I'm actually capable of being with on the real? He can hurt you, but it's not in the same way a smart guy can. I suppose that comes from feeling lack of control in other areas of life.
A smart guy can get you under his thumb and keep you there,because he understands your Achilles' heel. Eating disordered people understand this way of thinking: I'm a restricted eater, but I'm a smart lover. Despite the sweet, naive nature of a dumb guy, a relationship simply can't work when there's a measurable intellectual disconnect. I'm just a confused 20-something trying on all the men in the world for size until one feels right.
When all you get in return is a blank stare, it can get really old, really fast. However, when you regularly feel like you need sock puppets to explain something to a guy you're dating, it gets frustrating. They can get insecure and there's no guarantee that they can manage their insecurities well.
An insecure idiot can quickly turn into an abusive one.